I am far from an expert on relationships. Yes, Mr. 1969 and I will celebrate nine years of marriage this year and yes, we have a good relationship but I can only advise on what works for me and for us.
I do know some basic things though.
I know that women need to stop making excuses for their men and their behavior. He’s grown and he knows exactly what he is doing. If he is not doing what you think he should be doing then it is UP TO YOU to react and handle it in a way that will make YOU happy.
If you allow him to slide and continue to accept excuse after excuse……then the problem is not him, it’s you.
So act accordingly ladies….do what needs to be done to make yourself HAPPY. The good men are out there however, if you keep dealing with bad ones and making it easy for them to treat you poorly……you will lose your ability to recognize a good man. You will lose your self worth and eventually, you will still be alone.
Thanks for listenening and have a great weekend.
Amen.. dat good lasik helped clear up my vision.. dat and great friends and big sisters and a few good brothers.. yessir.. I hope this message reaches those that need to HEAR IT!!!
See Sixty you always do a good service
Exactly. Thanks, lady!
You may be a self-proclaimed “non-expert”, but that’s some great advice! I hope those that need it, take heed!
Halleluiah! Thank you for putting it out there.
Can we run this post like a commercial? Like every day???? Every hour?
Let’s just blast it out to people in email…….
Here’s my favorite line…”then the problem is not him, it’s you.”
CHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUURCCCCCHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
PREACH. too bad the people who need to hear this most likely don’t read your blog. but we can hope.
Thanks!!
And let the congregation say amen!
I heard THAT!
Why don’t you just tell us about how one of your girls called you and complained about her no good man…Be like me dammit! Tell all the business!…lol Umm ya know what! Scratch that…My boys are dwindling by the minute…lol
Lol Mr. Slish’s blog sounds interesting!
My problem is sometimes recognising when its an excuse as opposed to when its the truth…hmmm…
You have a good one too mrs. 1969
Preach!
I love your wisdom….thank you for sharing!
Too true. We women get caught up in that cycle of enabling a guy’s bad behavior. That cycle only ends with a strong, centered woman calling it quits.