I am far from an expert on relationships. Yes, Mr. 1969 and I will celebrate nine years of marriage this year and yes, we have a good relationship but I can only advise on what works for me and for us.
I do know some basic things though.
I know that women need to stop making excuses for their men and their behavior. He’s grown and he knows exactly what he is doing. If he is not doing what you think he should be doing then it is UP TO YOU to react and handle it in a way that will make YOU happy.
If you allow him to slide and continue to accept excuse after excuse……then the problem is not him, it’s you.
So act accordingly ladies….do what needs to be done to make yourself HAPPY. The good men are out there however, if you keep dealing with bad ones and making it easy for them to treat you poorly……you will lose your ability to recognize a good man. You will lose your self worth and eventually, you will still be alone.
Thanks for listenening and have a great weekend.