Background: Before I took my current position, I worked as a Senior Account Executive in Sales. My Boss was an interesting character.
When I was approached for my current position, she was very unsupportive. She basically told me that she didn’t think I should take it as it wasn’t a good move for me. She actively sought other people out in the building to post for the job against me. It was a very eye opening experience and I really saw the hidden agenda behind her actions. In addition, she had previously had several run-ins with my new boss. The two of them have butted heads on many occassions so I guess it seemed like I was off to work for the enemy.
In addition, my new role is to basically ensure that the sales team takes groups that are sound. I am the group police. I make sure we are booking the right groups at the right rates over the right dates.
Now, I constantly get to call my old boss (the one who tried to sabotage me from getting this job) and challenge things that she has approved. Needless to say, there is a lot of tension between us. Mostly on her part. I’m skrait.
Today, I saw that a piece of business was on hold in the system that I told her to remove two weeks ago. The rate was low and we had another piece of business out there with a better rate and catering amount.
I called to ask her why she hadn’t turned it down and she snapped. She actually said…
“I don’t check up on YOUR world, why are you checking up on MINE. I run my ship.”
Now I know I come across as very even tempered and peaceful on this blog most of the time. You say to yourself….”That 1969 is so nice. Her family seems so perfect. She really has it all together. What a nice lady.”
Well, if you REALLY knew 1969…..and I mean REALLY knew me. You would know that I am always only a mere step away from cutting a bytch. Ya’ll know that angry Caribbean plus evil Brooklyn equals FLASHING LIGHTS, right?
I calmly went into her office, shut the door and broke down a few things in my calmest Cla.ire Hu.xta.ble. My position is DIRECTOR OF STRATEGY, my job is to make sure this hotel is booking profitable business. My role is not going to change. I am here to review any and all business that you put on the books and when I see something wrong…..ask you about your thought process in taking it. The fact that you are telling me this is YOUR ship shows that you need checking. We work for the same company. Profitablity has nothing to do with you meeting YOUR quota. It has to do with ALL of us making our goals.
Your “ME” attitude is preventing you from seeing the big picture view. So whatever personal issue you have with me needs to be put aside because I plan on making this hotel a lot of money this year. If that means keeping a close eye on the business you and your team are booking, then that’s what I have to do.
Heffa. She must not know bout me.

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April 8, 2008 at 3:15 pm
BK
Haaaa.. Tell her Sixty.. Hmm.. she is still vexed that you moved on and up!!!
Wow checking on your world eh? LOL Ok so please tell me what was the look on her face after you broke it down? LOL
April 8, 2008 at 3:21 pm
nineteen69
BK….she just sat there with her mouth hanging open. Then she started stuttering about how she is a team player and she doesn’t have any issues with me.
Uh…you don’t? Great, then we won’t need to have anymore of these discussions when I ask you a business related question. Thanks.
And I bounced.
April 8, 2008 at 3:24 pm
y
Love the Clair Huxtable reference. She probably expected you to get down on her level and get catty with it.
April 8, 2008 at 3:26 pm
nineteen69
Y….Catty? I wanted to hit her in the head with her stapler. LOL
April 8, 2008 at 4:03 pm
That Girl Tam
Heheh…I’m on the verge of cuttin a bitch whether I’m pregnant or not…so I can TOTALLY relate – although nobody has ever accused me of being all extra nice and all that..lol.
Glad you put that heffa in her place!! Next time you see her, flash her the middle finger just for ME!
April 8, 2008 at 4:33 pm
Ms. Lee
LMAO @ Flashing Lights!
Poor thing. She was all unsuspecting and feeling herself…LOL. And then you walked in. LOL. Love it!
April 8, 2008 at 4:44 pm
BK
LMAO @ her reaction.. oh NOW she wants to be a team player huh?? hahahaaaa
April 8, 2008 at 4:50 pm
erica b.
That’s right… she must not know bout you! Glad you went in there and broke her down.
April 8, 2008 at 5:13 pm
MissB
I know that’s right!!!! I would’ve LOVED to have been a fly on the wall in her office!! LOL
April 8, 2008 at 5:38 pm
nexgrl
Since we are the same sign, I will tell you that my close friends will call me nicety in a minute. Hopefully now that she knows how you get down, she will do her job efficiently.
April 8, 2008 at 5:52 pm
Amadeo
You should have added as you walked away…”and you know what door I leave from to…”
April 8, 2008 at 6:10 pm
Erica C.
Well damn! This heffa needs a gut check!
Girl, you’re a true soldier! I’m just glad you didn’t commence to whippin ass!
April 8, 2008 at 7:17 pm
Sissy
Wooo – my jaw locked just reading your story! Sometimes it’s necessary to flash the proverbial shank, causing the glare to temporarily blinds fools enough, so as to heighten their sense of hearing. That way, they won’t miss a word of the tongue thrashing that you give them!
I applaud you – wit yo $evil self!
April 8, 2008 at 7:19 pm
1969
$thanks $Sissy
April 8, 2008 at 7:27 pm
TravelDiva
Love the Hux.table reference. Sometimes you have to just step up to someone and let em know that your NOT the one all quick like. Way to handle your business.
April 8, 2008 at 7:54 pm
SIP
Now I know I come across as very even tempered and peaceful on this blog most of the time. You say to yourself….”That 1969 is so nice. Her family seems so perfect. She really has it all together. What a nice lady.”
TRUST…I never, EVER say this about you. I KNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS YO AZZ WELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!
April 8, 2008 at 8:59 pm
Pretty Primadonna
Get it, Claire! I can see it now… And “FLASHING LIGHTS”…? Hilarious, indeed.
April 8, 2008 at 10:08 pm
amy
SALAMMMM! (The sound of her a*ss being put back in its proper place) Flawless execution. If she has any sense at all she will think twice about coping an attitude or crossing you in the future.
April 9, 2008 at 12:35 am
Odyssey
I wonder what she said AFTER you walked out. Sometimes you have to get people straight, professionally of course.
April 9, 2008 at 12:59 pm
Pro
*Vaseline’d up* … Looks like you got this though. I’m on standby if needs be. *Cranks Trina’s CD, Still Da Baddest, back up… Skids off*
April 9, 2008 at 1:02 pm
onefromphilly
Well I betcha she knows NOW! LOL
April 9, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Miz JJ
She knew that you would be in a position of power over her and that is why she tried to sabotage you. She is so obvious. Also, she thinks she can talk to you any kind of way and that you would take it. She must think that you still work under her. I am glad you got her up to speed on the new reality. Why are people so unprofessional at work.
April 9, 2008 at 3:35 pm
Los Angelista
Jealousy is a vicious taskmaster. She sounds like an unhappy woman trying to bring you down. Leave her a tape with, “Chickkity check ya-self before ya wreck ya self!” playing on it.
April 9, 2008 at 4:41 pm
robyn
i sooooooooooooo feel you and I too have the “she’s so niiiice ” demeanor but those that REALLY know the real deal, know that I am
NOT
THE
ONE
For real…. you just inspired me to post something that happened last week girl !!! LOL
But the sad thing is that her saying unprofessional things to YOU might not have endangered HER job, but LET you have gotten 1% unprofessional with HER ASS and oh baby! you;d have been wrong 6 ways to Sunday ….. “well Mrs. 1969, because you are in a leadership role, we expect that you hold yourself to a standard and though she stooped to ….. blah blah, blah…….. so are we clear that this is not behavior exemplifying our culture nor your position?”…and I BET if you made a complaint that they would sweep it under the rug with a simple “dont be liek that Salty Sallie” and that be the end of it! hmmmph! We’re on to their ways!!! LOL
See….. this is why I have to ALWAYS be on my p’s & q’s because I am typically ONE – ASS-HAIR away from shuttin’ it DOWN because of some bs at the job!! LOL
And I AM THE HR PERSON!!!!!! LOL WOOO HOO!!!!
April 9, 2008 at 5:27 pm
brran1
Get em Sixty.
April 9, 2008 at 5:48 pm
jalishouse
Hells yeah! Good for you.
April 11, 2008 at 1:55 pm
Dee
“Ya’ll know that angry Caribbean plus evil Brooklyn equals FLASHING LIGHTS, right?” Bwahahahahaha. Oh, I KNOW! :-p Don’t hurt nobody.