“You are who you say you are….a Superstar” Lupe Fiasco
My oldest son turns six this Sunday. Just yesterday he was being placed in my new mommy hands. His life was entrusted to his daddy and I. We were so excited albeit terrified at the prospect of raising and nurturing this young mind.
Six years later, we can honestly look back and say that we have done a good job. My oldest son is so many things. He is intelligent and gets great grades in school. He loves books and is a voracious reader. He is extremely athletic and excels at all sports, particularly soccer (2007 All Star Team Baby).
He loves to tell jokes. He adores his brother. He loves to play but is also a hard worker.
His most endearing attribute? He has a big heart. He wants to rescue all animals and won’t let me kill ANY bugs. He prays every night for “all the children in the world especially the Hurricane Katrinas”.
He cares about people. He asks me so many questions. How can we help people that don’t have any food? Can we give our toys to kids that don’t have anything to play with? If my coat is too small, can the AKA’s and Omega’s help to give it to another kid?
I have to believe that all of these wonderful qualities began in our home. When I look at my son and the wonderful kid he is growing up to be…..I am so proud of my husband and I for growing up with him. He is our special product and he really is our Superstar.
We are planning a huge birthday bash on Saturday so the week may get hectic. Before I forget, I just wanted to take this minute to say it with words.
Mommy loves you Tali 1. You are an awesome kid and I find new things to be proud of every single day. Nothing and no one can ever change that. Thank you for teaching me how to be a good mommy. Thank you for being patient with me when I was losing my patience. Thank you for making me look at life with new eyes.
Thanks for always eating my ice cream because “you said you were on a diet!”.
I love you son.



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April 1, 2008 at 4:30 pm
brran1
Happy Born day Tali 1! Hey sixty, he’s only six? In that pic he looks like he’s maybe 8 or 9.
April 1, 2008 at 4:40 pm
KaNisa
Now that’s love…Black love.
April 1, 2008 at 4:45 pm
Ms. Sula
Awww,Tali 1 is an Aries!! Go Aries!
Happy Birthday to Tali 1… And Ms. 1969 and Mr.1969, you are obviously doing a fantastic job.
I’ll be thinking about you guys on Saturday, as I am actually throwing a b-day party that day as well.
Have a fun week!
April 1, 2008 at 5:12 pm
nineteen69
brran….he is on his way to being a six footer. He is off the height chart.
KaNisa…I love your new blog layout. You know you are amazing right?
Ms. Sula….he is SUCH an Aries. LOL Have fun at your party this weekend.
April 1, 2008 at 5:20 pm
G. Mo
Beautiful and inspiring.
April 1, 2008 at 5:22 pm
MissB
AWWWWWWWWWW!!! Soooo Sweet!!!
Happy Birthday Tali 1!!!
April 1, 2008 at 5:23 pm
Gladys
Such a sweet post. Why does Tali 1 look like he’s ten in the second picture???
April 1, 2008 at 5:32 pm
erica b.
Awww… they grow up so fast… you have to soak up every single moment! He is a big six year old! Happy B’day Tali #1!
April 1, 2008 at 5:32 pm
nineteen69
Gladys……I know. I took that picture this weekend and I stared at it for almost 15 minutes. I started bawling and sent it to my mom. MY BABY IS GROWING UP SO FAST. *sigh*
April 1, 2008 at 5:35 pm
adrienne
Awwwww they do grow up fast!! Happy Birthday!!!
April 1, 2008 at 5:47 pm
alwaysfunkyfresh
*sniff sniff*
Where’s my tissue…….
April 1, 2008 at 6:06 pm
CreoleInDC
He is so handsome and sweet! Truly he is! I love how much he loves his baby brother too. That is just sooooooooo special.
You and Mr. 1969 are doing it the right way and that makes my heart smile.
April 1, 2008 at 8:05 pm
dejanae411
too cute
happy bornday to the wee one
sounds like u n ur husband got that parenting thing on lock
special kid u got there
April 1, 2008 at 8:14 pm
Ms. Lee
Awwww. Happy Birthday Tali 1! (I love how he helps you with your diet
)
April 1, 2008 at 8:43 pm
Los Angelista
That’s a sweet picture of you two. I know folks always say the years pass too fast but I never believed it was true till I celebrated my eldest’s 7th birthday! They’ll be grown and with their own blogs before we know it.
April 1, 2008 at 8:57 pm
NinaMM
Got my bottom lip trembling and shat. Warn me next time you fi’n to get all mystical!
Happy Birthday Tali-boo!
April 2, 2008 at 12:38 am
Babs
Happy Birthday baby boy!
April 2, 2008 at 2:41 am
Odyssey
Awww! Happy Birthday Tali 1! He is really tall.
April 2, 2008 at 4:05 am
adifferentstory
Awww, Tali 1 sounds so adorable! I love the “Thanks for always eating my ice cream because “you said you were on a diet!”.”
April 2, 2008 at 4:07 am
Patrice
OMG he is getting so big! Happy Birthday!!
April 2, 2008 at 4:35 am
The Maven
When Motherhood becomes a part of my life, I will think of this post and smile.
April 2, 2008 at 1:11 pm
Fergie
Happy Birthday Tali 1. That is a great picture of you two..
April 2, 2008 at 1:21 pm
Amadeo
While everyone else is being reflective and touched…I’m thinking, “Man, soon they’ll be cutting the grass and all that.”
Hey I’m a guy….my people made me do chores.
Oh, and if you ever consider a garden you have the manpower.
April 2, 2008 at 2:47 pm
Dee
What a sweetheart. Happy Birthday!
April 2, 2008 at 4:23 pm
jameil
awwwwwwwww!! happy bday tali 1!! too cute. i esp. love “especially the Hurricane Katrinas.” what a sweet baby!!
April 2, 2008 at 4:32 pm
onefromphilly
Tali #1 is an Aries like me!!!! Happy Birthday Aries buddy!
And he has the same birthday as the EX, LOL. But it all good.
Time flies so fast, enjoy all of these birthdays.
April 3, 2008 at 8:21 pm
That Girl Tam
Lemme say this…your son is sooooooo handsome!! He looks hella tall for his age!! ML (my dear first born) will be 7 next month and I look back thinking the same things that you do…and mine is good at baseball!
They’re blessings…aren’t they? Sponges that absorb all of our “good” stuff…and sometimes some of our “bad” stuff. I’m still waiting for ML to stop saying, “Mommy, quit bossing me around!”
I have NO idea where he gets that from!
April 4, 2008 at 5:07 pm
SimplyB
Okay you had me crying by the 3rd paragraph. 1969 really does love the kids!
Happy Belated Tali1!!!