A couple of weeks ago, 1969 and her office posse of Brown people (four of us) went out for drinks afterwork. Three women in their 30′s and our young buck little brother who is a whopping 23 and thinks he knows everything.
So we start enjoying some beverages and he tells us about this new chick he is phone macking from How.ard. So we ask him how far he has gotten with the young lady.
He tells us that he has been talking to her on the phone but he was slated to visit her over Memorial Day weekend and he was pretty sure “the deed” would be going down.
So we asked him what tricks he was going to pull out of his arsenal. That boy said …”I don’t need any tricks. I am me.” After a full three seconds of dead quiet…**crickets chirping**….all three of us burst out laughing.
He proceeded to tell us that he would not perform any oral activities the first time out and that he doesn’t need to.
Now you know, three grown azz women had to get all in his business (but we are all cool like that so it’s okay). He claimed that it’s against his beliefs. WHAT?
So my question is….your beliefs allow you to stick other parts in but you cant do oral?
So after we challenged his beliefs, we had to ask if it was okay for her to do it to him? Of course, it was……
Now I am gonna assume it was because he is a young buck but dayum. What’s up with that? Now I remember back in the day when brothers would swear to Big Baby Jebus that they didn’t do “IT” but would get behind closed doors and …..LOL
Are these stigma’s still out there? I know I am asking the right people….cause ya’ll are all nasty. Seriously, as wild as these kids are, we were shocked that he had this puritent kind of mentality. I am all for making sure the individual is legit before engaging in safe activities but he really was like “I just won’t do that PERIOD.”
I will say that the three of us advised him that if he was a true mack….he would go up there, just give her the oral of her life and then break out. LOL (Mr. 1969 agreed.)
I’ll leave this one open to the forum….what things won’t you do? Do Rules Exist for you when dating or is it all fair game?